The marriage swindlers managed to break up more than one female heart. And, unfortunately, even smart and experienced women can not always see a fraudster in a man.
How to recognize a marriage swindler
But there are signs that can help a woman understand whether a man who is next to her is a marriage swindler.
Pay as much attention as possible to the questions often asked from a man. If they are mainly associated with your property, you should be wary of. At first it may seem that these are just the questions that he asks to recognize you better. However, it is strange that already at the first stage of the relationship he is already interested in whether you have a car, your own real estate, whether you plan to acquire something out of this, as far as your parents are provided, will they leave you an inheritance and so on.
If a man has already learned enough about your property, try not to inform him of, for example, that you bought your apartment on credit and now do not even know how you will pay off the bank. Carefully watch the reaction of a man. Whether changes have appeared in his behavior.
Be sure to tell him that a marriage contract is important for you, and you plan to conclude it in case of marriage. After all, the main goal of the swindler is the property. And when he begins to understand that you not only do not want to part with your own property and know how to protect it, he immediately begins to lose interest in a woman.
Ask a man more about him and his work. As a rule, marriage swindlers do not like to talk about themselves. He, of course, may mention that he has his own business, but you should not wait for details, he is unlikely to talk about it.
How to recognize a marriage swindler
Try to check the contact details of this man. It happens that marriage swindlers change the phone number and move from one place to another. If he is happy to visit your apartment, but to visit his apartment, he does not allow you to alert you.
Ask a man to introduce you to his relatives and friends. Also invite him to meet your relatives and friends. Typically, marriage swindlers against acquaintance with the environment of their victim, and also does not introduce her to his environment.
Take a closer look at the behavior of this man. Perhaps he will be romantic and tender with you. However, if at the same time he always complains of his hard life, looking for support from you, and expects you to help mainly material this should alert you and suggest that this man is a marriage swindler.
