We All Want To Communicate. It. We are Constantly Exchange Information, Looking for New Accuintans, Life Partners, Together Make Plans for Life, Develop New Ideas, Discuss Cases From Life, Work And Life and Life. All of this Adds Up To Oour Communication. It is a Very Important Process, and that’s will get offended arcEone tells a lie and we do notice it. From this it follows the Easy Conclesions that each of US WOLD Like to Recognize A Lie and Learn to See Its Characteristic Features. However, this is not Possible, Even Only BecAuse The Person Himself Sometimes Not Distinguish His Own Fantasies From Reality.
Fortunatly, Modern Psychology Allows You to “Suspect Someting Wrong” By Some Indirect Signs that Manifest in the Interlocutor, Who IS Trying to Deceive You.
Principles of Lie Detection
Lying Makes The Person Telling It Uncomfortable. At Such Moments, A Person Begins To Feel Nervous, Uncomfortable and Afraid of Disclosure.
Let’s look at Exactly What to look for when how.”.
Body
The first Thing You Shoup Pay Attend to is the Movements of the Person When Talking to You. Covering HIS Mouth with HIS Hand or Scratching HIS Nose Means that Interlocutor On a Subconscious LEVEL IS TRYING To SHUT YOU OUT, to “PUT A BARRIER.
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Emotions
ALSO Pay Attendation to the Emotions of the Other Person During the Conversation. Emotions May Be Expressed Tardily or Before You Finish a Sentence. Thus Facial Gestures Indicate that Person Is Hiding Someting from You. This is Due to the fact that person is Mentally Distant from the Conversation. His Mind is OCCUPied with Other Thumbs, But He Tries To Maintain The Conversation by Imitating His Emotions Aroused by Your Words.
In Total, there ABOUT 46 Independent Facial Movements, Which in Combination with Each Other Create More than 7000 Unified Types of Emotions. Many Facial Muscles Are Controlled at the Subconscious LEVEL, Which IS “FAKE” Smiles are so different from the Real Ones.
But it is not just demotions that can be a sign of lying. Excessive Emotion Iso a Means to An end. Anerly Polite Or Rude Tone Can Mean that Interlocutor Is Traing to Hide His Real Emotions.
Eyes
As you know, the eyes are the “mirror” of the soul. During Communication, The Eyes Take An Active Part. According to Their Position You Can Determine What Is of Interest to the Interlocutor At the Moment.
The Person Looks in the Upper Right Corner. Constructs a Picture.
Top Left Corner. Involves Visual Memory.
Right Side. Makes up some Sound.
Left Side.Recalls What He Has Heard.
Lower Right Corner. Verifies Feelings and Sensations.
Lower Left Corner. Analyzes The Situation.
Straight look. Information perception.
BUT Simple Combinations Can Also Tell us a Lot?
Have You Ever Observed Your Interlocutor and Notced that He is not Completely Honest with You?. But do not jump to conclusions, t.to. Very Offen People, Inter Reading Articles Like this, Begin to Suspect Anyone and EVERYONE of LYING. You Shoup Make a Conclusion Only after the Conclesion of the Conversation, But No One Guaranteees You A 100% Result.
To get reliable Information, You Need to Know a Man’s Behavior at the Time He Tells The Truth. It isfore Better to Apply What You have Learned to Someone You Already Know, and Only Try to Catch Strangers in A Lie.
